How Volunteering Helped Me (and Can Help You) Overcome Bullying

Bullying is a word we all know—a word we all hate, perhaps. Truthfully, it’s something many of us have encountered, if not personally, then through someone we know. I was bullied, targeted because of my size, dyslexia, and responsibilities as a young carer. These experiences made school challenging, even unbearable at times.

I remember a particular incident walking home when I was attacked. I returned to school, bleeding, as it was closer than home. A teacher advised me to “be more confident,” but how does one “get confident” amidst ridicule?

Volunteering Was the Answer

For me, the solution was volunteering. My journey began at a difficult time in my life with an opportunity to become a peer mentor at school, assisting younger students with their challenges. Through training and subsequent mentoring, I found my confidence growing. Helping others developed my communication and problem-solving skills, and I found joy and purpose in the project.

In the second year, a peer and I initiated a confidential drop-in scheme for students. Our efforts were rewarded when we were nominated for a prestigious Diana Award. Winning this award was significant, providing recognition and a boost to my self-esteem.

Moving Forward

Volunteering can be a powerful tool for building resilience in the face of personal challenges like bullying. The recognition that comes with it can enhance self-esteem and life prospects. As a Youth Advisory Board member at Vinspired, I am proud to support BeatBullying’s Big March, a global initiative to stand against bullying.

Volunteering is not only an opportunity to help others but also a means of personal growth. Explore opportunities at Vinspired to make a difference, perhaps by becoming a CyberMentor with BeatBullying.

Note: This article reflects personal experiences and insights into the transformative power of volunteering in overcoming bullying.